Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Rollin' with the punches

To mom's great relief Evelyn rolled from her back to her belly this week. Mom, that is me, was trying to keep it cool and not worry as it has been obvious for some time that Evy would do it. But I admit, I was worried. I guess it goes with the territory. When your child suffers a brain injury and you are told to watch for missed developmental benchmarks, you almost live and die with every twist, tug and smirk. Today I no longer have to worry that Evy will never roll from belly to back. It is truly a gift.

Speaking of gifts, my sister Janet sent me some pics she took of Evelyn back in October when we were in the NICU. I had to post my two favorites. It was great to see them and remember that we shared some very tender moments together in the hospital. Evelyn was probably 36 weeks gestation when these pics were taken. In a perfect world she would be 4 weeks from birth. Yet in this world I could cuddle with her at will and we were already learning to be the lean mean breast feeding machine we are today. I would have never chosen this, but having a preemie does have some great times. Yah for the preemies of this world and to their parents I wish many tender moments.

Monday, March 16, 2009

A Poem

Evy and I shower together. Mostly for convenience but it also makes for a great cuddle session. I love this time together. During our shower this morning I composed a poem from Evy's point of view. Enjoy.

On the floor
Cold, Hard
naked
cuddling
skin to skin
splish splash
soapy sudsy
hold breath
all clean
towel dry
Warm, Soft
On the floor again

Monday, March 2, 2009

Dog barks, baby babbles and neck bobbles


I have uploaded some pics taken two weekends ago at Evelyn's first dog sled race. It was the first annual IDidaRace to help support the Arctic Dog Rescue in Park City UT. Evelyn and I were just spectators this year but we hope to help organize the second annual race next year. As you can see it was a gorgeous day. Evelyn did very well. We had to sneak off to the car a few times to nurse, but otherwise she was a great cold weather warrior. Also, I learned I must carry sun screen in the diaper bag. Luckily a kind man saved her from her first sun burn this time.

Evelyn is turning into such a little talker. She has been chattering with us for a few months but presently she has began to babble to herself. This usually happens in the morning when she wakes up. She sucks and coos, coos and sucks. Her favorite sound to make is a rolling K. She will even recognize this sound in my speech and repeat it. If I say kiss or drink she will repeat the K back to me. I am not sure but I think this behavior is advanced for a 4 month old. I would like some feed back on this. I would like to know when all you moms out there remember your little one started to babble. I can read in a book the expected age but I want to know your experiences.

Lastly, I have began to wear bobbling necklaces for Evelyn to grab onto. It is to encourage her to reach out and touch things. She is a bit slow to really explore outside her mouth with her hands. She has a soft doll she likes to have on her lap to touch but she is not a big fan of other toys yet. I thought if she reached for me and grabbed wood, glass, or plastic beads she might feel better about her toys. So far I have just used beads I had laying around on a thick twine. I am planning on shopping for more so I can make a necklace to match each outfit. I am looking for big beads (wood, plastic and glass) and I would like to find some magnetic clasps as well. Respond if you have any thoughts on the subject. Please.